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Thrice Heartbroken Eclectic Tentatively Concidering Another Try

First of all, I am POOR! I cannot afford Premium Membership. If you think I'm worth it, drop me a line on google mail. Use the first six characters of my nme here. That said...
I'm a guy. I like doin' stuff... No, seriously. I call my path "Californian Eclectic". I started with a Quasi-Celtic Neo-Pagan base, and modified some of the traditions to fit the climate. I'm still figuring out the particulars as I go. Never really had my Year-And-A-Day of study. Meh. I was always a shitty student anyhow.
I am many and varied, sometimes self contradicting, in other words, Human. That was terrible sentance structure. I try to take as little as possible very seriously. Even the things I consider Sacred. My sense of Humor knows few boundries. Fortunately I *have* learned when to keep it to myself.
I go for all the classic cliches; walks in the woods or on the beach, or town town. I love camping (and travel in general), reading, movies, theater, music, cooking, eating, a roll in the hay, a romp in the bedroom, a well planned rite or an impromtu Circle.
AAAAAnd that's all I can think of off the top of my head. There's MUCH more under the serface of course. Just please keep in mind that my heart is still rather sore from the most recent clobbering, so I'm a li-i-i-ittle hesitant...

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageIrish
BuildA few extra pounds
Height173 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorDark blonde
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairGoatee
Best featureSmile
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionBipolar


Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNo
Living ArrangementsWith parent(s)
Wants to RelocateMaybe
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

EducationProfessional - Technical - Vocational School
SpecialtyArt / Music / Literature
Employment StatusUnemployed
Annual incomeSeeking support
Job TitleWriter, Actor, Story Teller, Professional Liar, ?

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesCartoons, Documentaries, Instructional, Movies
Favorite movies typesAction, Science fiction, Comedy, Animation, Horror, Thriller, Adult
Music typesRock, Electronic, Pop, Classical, Blues, Jazz, New age, Ambient, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Folk, Punk
Reading selectionComic, Fantasy, Fiction, Humor, Mystery, Nature, Satire, Science, Science fiction, I'm an author
Favorite booksWhile I stated that I am an author above,
Idea of funWell, as stated in my 'About Me' blurb:
I like to travel. I love camping and hiking. I love to cook, and eat. I love to cuddle and snuggle (and the activity which inevitably follows, though it does not have to). I love going to movies and plays, and concerts. I love sitting down with a good book. I love playing board games and 'party games', and I especially love good ol' table-top pencil-&-paper RPGs. D&D, of course, but I've played and enjoyed others. Particularly White Wolf.
I have recently started slowly getting into the Fan community. I am a Furry, just so you know.
HobbiesArts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Music, TV, Movies, Internet, Games, Dancing, Family, Dining, Religion, spirituality, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Camping, Volunteering


SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Friends describe asFriendly
In High School I was a(n)Nerd
My great timeHanging out with friends, Staying at home, Trying new things, The movies, Relaxing, Reading a book, Playing dress-up, Playing video games, Going to a concert, Going to a museum
Always wanted to tryAbove, it says "My social behavior is [I'll tell you later.]" Next time you get a chance, open the drop-down there. Read that list. My answer is 'All of the above'. Honestly, I hate when that option is not available. For me, truely, it depends on the situation and the people involved.
Same goes for Sense of Humor. I'm all over the map. There is very little that I won't find hilarious in the right light. It is a blessing and a curse.
To answer the question this box is meant for... I've always wanted to try bird-suit base jumping. This is odd because I am near phobically afraid of falling. Not hights, just falling. Near as I can figure, I had wings once, loooong ago. An arrow brought me down. I still have the scar.


Political viewsMiddle of the road
Goal in publish! (I'd love to be the next Tolkien.)
To be capable of living independantly, yet still surrounding myself with close friends and Loved Ones.
To not be alone.
To be remembered.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Oddities, Spontaneity, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerI'm really uncertain how to answer this. I like redheads, asthetically. Truthfully, I find all women beautiful. My first mistake was a gorgeous Arian Catholic. My next two were both large. The first of them was bulbous, while the other was a true BBW. I realize this tells ou nothing of who they were, but I guess that's not reallt important right now.
I dunno...
I want, need, a woman close to my age (preferably close to my build) who has her own head and heart figured out. Someone who can take me and accept warts and all. Who won't try to change me. I won't say no to some sociological assistance, but I will always need to be myself.
On the first dateCoffee. A picnic. A museum. A long walk, or maybe a bike ride. Talking, joking, laughing. Seeing how it goes from there on.
Please be adviced that should a 'spark' or 'zing' occure, I'll prob'ly still me hesitant. I fall in way too easily and feel I need to curb that habit. I am now very cautious with my heart.
Yet still, I hope.